For adults, the term IRL - in real life - truly meant life offline.
At least at first.
It was a game, a past time, something we were all figuring out. We were told that the things we did online in essence weren't real because they happened online. But the actions we, and others, take online can have offline consequences.
Using this phrase, IRL has done a disservice to us, to our kids generation and to all younger generations who are growing up with access to the world through a digital platform. Digital Natives. For them the digital world is just as real as the one offline. They are interconnected and they can’t be separated.
Real life isn’t just offline.
Online and offline impact and are effected by each other. Saying offline is ‘real life” is an illusion that perpetuates the idea that what happens online doesn’t matter.
But, it does matter.
Our young people have had a digital presence from such an early age and they are generally unaware of the consequences (good and bad) that their online life has offline.
We need to
Join the conversation! Let me know how you are helping make your kids aware of how their online actions effect their offline life experience.
Most kids think their parents are unaware of how this digital world works.
Unfortunately, because of that, your kid might be unlikely to come to you for guidance about things that happen online. Even though social interactions have similar outcomes on and offline, it can be difficult for kids to see the similarities. SO since these things are happening online, they assume we as parents won’t be of any help.
Here are a few conversations you can have with your kid so they know they can come to you when something uncomfortable or unsafe comes up online.
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